Diapers Q&A
While dating how would one (30-35 yrs old) bring up a medical need for Adult Diapers to possible girlfriend?
I am urinary incontinent and wear diapers everyday. I am active, work at a good job, and do socially go out with friends (who accept my incontinence). I have taken my incontinence and managed, including a top priority to personal hygene, being discrete, and being active to acomplish personal goals. But my self confidence drops when I think about going out on a date or starting a relationship with a woman. There is such a social boundry to overcome with diapers. I usually find myself in one of two senarios. One: I wait till we really hit it off and become close and I know there are real feelings there. This to me seems unfair to the woman and I do not want to hide things but lets me be close to someone even for a little while. Two: I am up front from the second date (believing that there is so many other personal factors such as compatibility and interests in the first date) telling her and not wasting our time. Both have had good and bad results. Thank You
Public Comments
- I think this is just an area where you have to follow your gutt feeling. Some women are going to be able to understand and some aren't. People have difficulties, some are medical, some come in different forms. It's easy to dread dating when you realize it means revealing vulnerabilities to others.
