Diapers Q&A

While dating how would one (30-35 yrs old) bring up a medical need for Adult Diapers to possible girlfriend?

I am urinary incontinent and wear diapers everyday. I am active, work at a good job, and do socially go out with friends (who accept my incontinence). I have taken my incontinence and managed, including a top priority to personal hygene, being discrete, and being active to acomplish personal goals. But my self confidence drops when I think about going out on a date or starting a relationship with a woman. There is such a social boundry to overcome with diapers. I usually find myself in one of two senarios. One: I wait till we really hit it off and become close and I know there are real feelings there. This to me seems unfair to the woman and I do not want to hide things but lets me be close to someone even for a little while. Two: I am up front from the second date (believing that there is so many other personal factors such as compatibility and interests in the first date) telling her and not wasting our time. Both have had good and bad results. Thank You!

Public Comments

1. Just slip the diaper off with the undies if anything eventuates between you and a girl.I would not tell her about the problem until you got to know her very very well.
2. I would recommend getting to know a girl as a friend first and telling her about it at that point. The unfortunate truth is that a lot of women are likely to be put off by your situation, and covering it up to get closer to them will come off as a form of lying to them. Find a girl who is willing to overlook it first, and then explore the possibility of romantic involvement. Keep looking, I have no doubt the right lady is out there.
3. I feel for ya..not the incontinence part, don't want to make you think i have pity on you, i think you are remarkable for they way you live your life..I'm talking about finding someone to love and have them love you back...i hate society because people do concern themselves with issues such as this and think its so un cool to hang with any one not classed as NORMAL, i think you should be upfront, u will find that person who dosent care! I hope really soon! You sound lovely!