I am using Bum genius 3.0's and am wondering what is a good one to extend the life of my diapers? i want them to be as soft and absorbant as possible.we currently use all free and clear and heard that all f+c Military is the best but do not know where to find that off of a military base. I may try Planet as well. I will be moving soon to a area with well water and know that some det. do not work well in hard water. any experience with planet or All det anyone? any suggestions would be great. i am new to this and would love to hear about some great det. options. Thanks guys!!