Does anyone have personal experience with both goodnites and tena brand pullups? Background: I'm male, 152 lbs and have used goodnites during the daytime with fair success. I have urge-type incontinence which translates to 2-3 'mild' accidents throughout the daytime, and the goodnites have been perfect (male-incontinence shields bunch up and leak). At night, I use the Tena diapers, and have now started considering the pullups for daytime use. They are advertised as close-fitting to the body and basically undetectable (why I like the goodnites); however, I'm wondering about their performance. Again, the goodnites have worked very well for me, however, the baby-ish designs occasionally get to me; though I've accepted this as part of my life (at least for now), I would like to feel abit more 'adult.' I have a very supportive GF, but sometimes I'm embarrassed when she sees me in the 'baby' diapers, less so in the adult diapers. Any 'serious' advice is appreciated.