Diapers Q&A

I use adult diapers and have tried to keep it a secret but a friend saw?

I wear diapers,I was in a serios accident that fractured my pelvis and damaged my bladder I am only 24. and my friend came over and i forgot to put the package back in the box. she picked one up not knowing what it was and realized it and dropped it back into the box. I was so humiliated, she didn't say anything and acted kind of weird about it. What would you do if you found your friend had to wear them?

Public Comments

1. I would hope that i chose a good enough friend to be understand and sympathetic. If Anyone is rude about that it would be pretty sad.
2. It would be awkward, but you have a reason for them and that should be all that matters.
3. Well i think i would have reacted the same way. Your friend was embarassed, for me it shows that it has respect for you. And your question is strange, why would it change anything if my friend had to wear diapers because of a health problem or an accident ?
4. I am 28 and when I was 24 i was in a bad car accident that broke 1/2 my body including my pelvis as well. if i sneezed or laughed or coughed I pissed myself. when i had sex i leaked it is embarrassing but something you need to deal with. I wore diapers too and pads for over a year. doing kegals helps and over time your muscles will become stronger and you will leak less and less. Still even almost 5 years after my accident I still leak from time to time. luckily my boyfriend understand and it doesnt bother him. interesting things about accidents you really find out who are your friends. i lost a lot of "friends" after almost dying....people dont know how to handle it. find more supportive friends if your current ones cant or refuse to understand your situation. being in such a serious accident is truly life changing....right now i know its depressing but hopefully you can gain some new insights about yourself and life in general. GOOD LUCK!!!
5. Things happen in our lives that happen through no fault of our own. you should talk to your friend about it and explain the reason for having to use this form of protection. Good friends accept you the way you are, warts and all. You have no reason to be embarrassed. You are young and everything around us screams perfection. well, some of us are not perfect,but we make up for it in other ways.
6. If she is your true friend she will not care! She is probably glad that you survived the accident and sympathetic about your situation. You should talk to her about it and explain to her why you wear them, if she isn't understanding then she isn't a good friend!